Tywin threatened to murder Tyrion if he didn’t rape Tysha IIRC. That’s not just not his fault that’s… him being a rape survivor…?
Exactly. But I’ve seen multiple people count that as a mark against Tyrion’s character, let alone them refusing to acknowledging he was also a victim in that scenario. Or worse, arguing that he could have said no if he really wanted to, that Tywin wasn’t responsible for Tyrion’s physical arousal, etc, the usual blaming stuff.